With heavy hearts and cherished memories, we announce the passing of Robert Lee Hayes III, age 37, of Arab, Alabama, who passed away on October 8, 2026, just five days shy of his 38th birthday. Though his life was far too short, the love, laughter, and memories he left behind will last a lifetime.
Born on October 13, 1988, in Albertville, Alabama, Robert was the beloved son of Robert (Bobby) Hayes and Charmaine Sparks Hayes.
Robert’s personality was truly one of a kind. His kindness, generous heart, incredible sense of humor, and quick wit brought laughter and happiness to everyone fortunate enough to have known him. Robert had a special gift for making people feel welcome, valued, and loved. Whether he was sharing a funny story, making one of his unforgettable wisecracks, or simply spending time with those he cared about; Robert had a way of turning ordinary moments into lasting memories.
Robert enjoyed basketball, watching funny comedies, and spending time with his beloved girlfriend, Desirae Hennington, who held a very special place in his heart. Some of his happiest moments were spent with Desirae, whether they were laughing together over their favorite comedies, sharing meaningful conversations, or making cherished memories with family and friends. The love, laughter, and special bond they shared brought so much happiness to Robert’s life.
Above all, Robert cherished his family and the people closest to his heart. His love, laughter, and unforgettable personality will forever be remembered by those whose lives he touched. He leaves behind a lifetime of treasured memories and a legacy of love that will never fade.
Robert is survived by his loving father, Robert (Bobby) Hayes; his mother, Charmaine Sparks Hayes, and her longtime companion, David Gorff; his sister, Brittney Hayes Arsenov, and her husband, Pavel Arsenov; and his beloved girlfriend, Desirae Hennington.
He is also survived by his grandmother, Arlene Jones; his Aunt Sylvia Gilliland and her husband, Johnny; his Aunt Charlotte DeCorso and her husband, Bryan; along with many loving cousins, nieces, nephews, extended family members, and dear friends.
Robert was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Robert (Bob) and Mildred Hayes; his beloved Uncle Tommy Hayes; and his Great-Grandmother, Eva Ann Niece.
A Celebration of Robert’s Life will be Friday, October 16, 2026 at Arab Heritage Memorial Chapel, 1340 North Main Street, Arab, AL 35016. Family and Friends Gathering at 1:00 p.m. with the Memorial Service at 2:00 p.m.
Family and friends are invited to come together, share stories, remember the laughter, and celebrate the wonderful memories Robert gave to so many.
Although Robert’s time with us was far too short, the love he gave, the laughter he inspired, and the memories he created will remain with us forever. His absence leaves a space that can never be filled, but his spirit will live on in every smile, every shared memory, and every moment we remember the joy he brought into our lives.
Forever 37, forever loved, and forever in our hearts.
“Those we love never truly leave us. They live on in the kindness they shared, the memories they created, and the love they leave behind.”
Arab Heritage Memorial Chapel is honored to assist the family during this time of need.
