Janet Stone, born on August 2nd, 1940 in Hempstead, NY, began her journey as a beautiful daughter to Johanna and John Schlitt. Being the eldest among her siblings, John (Magda), Donald (Suzanne), and Richard (Suzanne) Schlitt, Janet embraced her role as a guiding light for her family with grace and love.
In her own journey of motherhood, Janet was blessed with three children, Deborah (Edwin Ortiz), Michael (Lashanda), and Scott Stone. The family mourned the loss of Scott, who died suddenly exactly 38 years ago on the same date Janet passed away. Today and everyday we cherish the joy Scott brought into Janet’s life along with Mike and Deb. While her kids were little, Janet was a full time mom, and she took her job seriously. She was a cub scout leader, and an active member of the PTA. She made clothing and costumes, and showed up for every event her children participated in. It was through her children that Janet realized one of her greatest gifts: being a Granny. She moved from Connecticut to Tennessee the day after her first grandchild was born in 1988. Fifi, Michael, Katie, Mandi, Maya, and Sterling were not only recipients of her affection but also witness to their grandmother’s incredible talent for knitting sweaters and blankets, sewing clothes for the kids and their dolls, or creating heartfelt felt stockings. Through these acts of love and creativity, Janet nurtured bonds that will forever be cherished by her adoring grandchildren. She was also blessed to be a Great Granny to Zane, Millie, Bailee, River Grace, Johnanna & Eliana. She learned just weeks ago that another precious great grand was on the way, and she made sure that she had the fixings to create a felt stocking for Mac.
If there is one word that encapsulates Janet’s character flawlessly, it would be generosity. Her heart overflowed with empathy and warmth for all those she loved. She possessed an innate ability to understand others’ struggles and offer a comforting presence during times of need. Compassion seemed second nature to Janet; she never hesitated to lend a helping hand or extend kindness wherever she could. We can all learn from her selflessness.
Janet was not only reliable in her dedication towards others but also in her pursuits professionally. Beginning in 1989 at an entry-level position at a local bank branch, she excelled and moved up to finish her career with an Accounting Firm’s Trust Department until her retirement in 2014 at 74 years old – she exemplified perseverance and commitment. Janet’s work ethic and dedication were commendable, leaving an indelible mark on her colleagues and the organizations she served. She still has relationships with the people she worked with.
Once she retired, most days you would find Janet working in her yard. She mowed her own grass with a push mower until last year! She also maintained her own landscaping and she found hours of pleasure working in the flower garden. She asked for a chainsaw for her 80th birthday! She also loved decorating her home, and she spent hours picking out the perfect lighting, furnishings and carpets. For fun, she loved to read and work on jigsaw puzzles.
In matters of spirituality, Janet was raised in the Lutheran church. Her faith guided her actions and provided solace throughout life’s trials. A few close friendships played a significant role in Janet’s life. For years, she cherished the companionship of Pam and Rose, forming unbreakable bonds through shared experiences and mutual interests. It was at church that Janet first met Pam, and their love for square dancing and travel only strengthened their friendship over time. As for Rose, their connection goes back to her time in Connecticut before moving to Nashville, growing stronger even at a distance as they supported each other through the highs and lows of life. Many others served as traveling companions and support over the years. Janet was blessed to have a beautiful support system rooted in love and trust.
As we say our goodbyes to Janet Stone, let us remember the compassionate, generous, kind, and reliable person she was. Her legacy lives on through her family, her children, grandchildren, great grands, and friends, and all those fortunate enough to have known her.
Janet Stone touched our lives with love and brought joy to countless hearts. May her gentle spirit forever remain in our memories as a reminder of the beauty that lies within each of us. As we bid farewell to our beloved friend today, let us be grateful for having had the privilege of knowing such an extraordinary soul.
A visitation will be held at Woodfin Memorial Chapel in Murfreesboro, TN on Monday, September 25, 2023 from 9:00 AM until 11:00 AM for friends and family to come visit and share the memories they have of Janet. Concluding services will be in Guilford, CT at a later date.
Rest in peace now, dear Janet. May your spirit find eternal peace among those who’ve gone before you into the arms of your loving savior Jesus Christ.
